Today is also my 63rd birthday, and I have
much for which to be thankful. I’m still alive, for starters. The other day I posted
a photo I took in the Porta-Bote as I putted up the Magnetawan River after picking
up the mail. There won’t be too many more of those trips this season, and I felt
blessed to have seized the day. It was late afternoon, and as the sun peeked
through a canopy of pines, lighting up the multi-colored maple leaves on the
opposite bank, I had one of those elusive moments of pure peace. For just one instant,
I was mindful of the paradise in which I live, of the natural beauty which has
become harder and harder for me to see. If I could only find a way to be
more invested in the moment, and nullify all the misunderstanding and divisiveness
that I can’t seem to outrun. All the drama, the trauma, the blame, the tragedy,
the misogyny, the words that are derogatory, the spin, the sin, the divisiveness,
the broken promises, the omnipresent hatred and misunderstanding; the losing
battle to control or defeat the very elements which are uncontrollable – it all
just drifted away in the snap of a cell phone photo. Sadly, I don’t reside in
this peaceful moment often. I have the photo to remind me.
For what am I thankful? Let me see. I am thankful for
my family, for the four wonderful parents (one still with us) who guided me
through the first six decades of my life, for my remarkable, beautiful wife,
who daily reminds me to chose love over hate, for all my good friends who have
so far infused my soul with their complicated and beautiful personalities, and
who continue to teach me by their examples. I am thankful for human kindness
wherever it is found, and for the people who recognize and practice it in their
everyday lives. I am thankful for all the trees, presently ablaze with color, some
which we, or people we love, planted, and which remind me of the swift passage
of time. I am thankful for the color blue in all its hues, for the key of D,
for the chickadees who so boldly land on our window ledge in every kind of
weather looking for food; for all the other birds I have lately come to admire,
including but not limited to: blue jays, grey jays, nuthatches, crows, grosbeaks,
owls, and eagles. I am thankful for the chipmunks, squirrels, groundhogs,
porcupines, weasels, fox, beaver, moose, deer, bear, raccoons, etc.that live here with us. I am thankful
for music in its rich array of styles, and for its capacity to unite unlike minds.
I am thankful for my ability to communicate.
Most of all, I am thankful for the flickering but
ever-strengthening realization that I am not on this planet to hurt anyone or
anything else. I am thankful for times when I am mindful I do, and for my
efforts to correct that behavior. I am thankful that, for the first time in over
sixty years, I am beginning to love myself, and am therefore more likely to pass
that love along. Finally, I am thankful for the occasional realization that most
of what happens around me is out of my control. I can only work to keep lit the
flickering flame of love within me and hope that it will illuminate the dream
of a peaceful future when I am gone. Written by Jamie Oppenheimer c 2018 ALL
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